Wednesday, September 24, 2008

One Commitment

Women don't like to be strung along. We really don't. Many of us are planning intricate details of our weddings while we play dress up at age six. We know the colors we want and the type of guy we want. We even have an idea about how long we would like to date a guy before he pops the question. After all, we don't want to wait too long as we are the ones who has time against us as our biological clocks are ticking.

Men tend to drag their feet in a lot of things they do. While in some cases this may be a good thing guys, one reason as to why women break up with men is because men wait too long. Some of you men might be reading this right now and have yet to tell a girl you love her because you want to mean it when you say these three words. Very respectable, but don't expect her to wait forever. We have heard all the lines men use because what it really boils down to is fear of commitment. Pretty much all men experience this at some point or another.

Healing a Broken Heart From Love

Somebody has broken your heart and now you don't know what to do. Are you just going to mope around like the whole world has collapsed on you? Or are you going to stand on your two feet and move on with your life? I know that this is easier said than done and that healing a broken heart from love is a process. But you have to start somewhere. And realizing and accepting that life goes on no matter what happens is probably the best way to start. Remember, it is all up to you.
There are simple things that you can do to make it easier for you to move on. One of these is by constantly talking to your friends or close relatives. Through talking to someone who cares for you, you can unburden yourself from unexpressed feelings which, in turn, can help you heal faster. Of course you should also listen to the things that your loved ones will tell you. Often, the solution to a problem can be found in the kind words of a friend.

Turn Your Boyfriend Into Your Husband

So if you're dating, you're probably wondering when your relationship will go from dating to marriage. But can I ask you a question? Do you want marriage or do you want marriage with your soul mate?
Well if you've been together for a decent amount of time, your best bet in knowing if this man is marriage material is to think about whether you are in this man's soul. Are you in his heart, does he burn for you? Has he continued to chase after you and make you feel like the most special woman in the world?

Do You Want Your Boyfriend to Marry You?

You've been dating your man and you're thinking that he may be your dream man. After kissing many frogs, you're ready to take your relationship to the next level but you're unsure how to go about doing that.

Your boyfriend is prewired and have been "trained" to have certain expectations. There are basic things he's looking for when it comes to thinking about long-term. Men generally take their time to jump into marriage for fear that their girlfriends will change or that they may be way in over their heads.

Men want to be sure. They love certainty and it is no secret that they also LOVE to win.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Related to Your Relationship

Do you think it's time to fall in love? Make sure you do it right. Maybe the next tips are known by everybody but sometimes there is a need to meditate at them again. What follows is for both men and women.
If your relationship started as a love-affair involving cheating, you need to answer this question: ''What if my partner does the same? '' You shouldn't expect a serious relationship with somebody who is not committed from the very beginning. Of course there are exceptions but if he/she likes love-affairs, do not expect changes.

You Want To Fall In Love

Of course the answer is an emphatic yes! But do you ever wonder what exactly you are asking for, besides all the popular notions of being starry-eyed and in a state of emotional euphoria? Once you are seduced by the magic or romance, there will undoubtedly come a time when you are asked to give a little bit more. Give what exactly?

The progression of rationale takes over and we explain away why we are with someone or not, and our looming desire to be vulnerable is successfully averted. We are protected again because we avoided exposing what we perceive to be our weaknesses or deep, dark secrets. We relinquish this challenge to be "real" and fall back into our comfort zone of fears, fantasies, and needs to justify why our relationships are inadequate. We lapse into quasi-love connections or claim to be immune from the drawbacks of falling in love because the right person just hasn't come along. WOW! All this after we swore we would honor and cherish falling in love if only the gods above would be kind enough to bestow on us this extraordinary experience.

It helps to know that falling in love is not just about chemistry, common ground, and the willingness to care for someone, although these things build a solid foundation. We can also look to history as a means of understanding the evolution of falling in love. This perspective can highlight the downside of considering only the finely packaged examples set up by those who influence us most: family, friends, and role models, by allowing us to recognize that we have evolved from love connections based on survival, loneliness, and procreating, to include more profound connections that consider the divine elements of the heart and soul.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Blissful Relationship With Your Partner

Before you jump to any conclusions or say mean stuff in a fight. Take a stroll outside or have a glass of water. Do not just say things that you will regret later on. Make sure you sit down and analyze why you are stressed and what the major causes are. I am most certain you will be able to discover what is bothering you, rather than you picking a fight with your partner.

In a fight or in a post fight, the bitterness remains, it is hard to get back to the normal situation. Make sure you talk your self to remain calm, and not lose your cool.

Make Someone Love You

Make that person your friend, you have to be friends first before they can love you. Meet up with them anywhere, make sure you know places they frequent and what time they will pass a specific spot. Say halloo with a smile. Do this for a couple of days. Much later, meet up with them and introduce yourself, you can be very sure they will introduce themselves back. You do not have to strike a conversation with them immediately after this. You can ask them for a date and meet them later. No matter how many times they say no to your invitation, do not be discouraged. Ask them again and again. If you persist they might just give you a date for the heck of it. Don't care much about them giving you a date just to make you stop nagging them.